Resource Hub

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This is a living resource hub; new links & information are added regularly.

for all things end of life, death & dying


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Information & Resources

Death File Documents

  • Death File Checklist

    • Advance Health Care Directive – signed & notarized / witnessed

      • Medical Power of Attorney

      • Living Will / any specific instructions for medical care 

    • Advance Death Care Directive / Funeral & Disposition Plan

    • Dementia Provision

    • POLST Physicians Orders for Life Sustaining Treatment (if applicable)

    • Will / Trust & Certificate of Trust

    • Life Insurance Policy Information

    • Durable Power of Attorney for Finance

    • Login information and passwords for all email/social media/any online accounts

    • Bank Account Information

    • Real Estate Documents & Deeds 

    • Debtor Information

    • Pet Provision (if applicable)

    • Copy of Driver’s License 

    • Copy of Social Security Card

    • Copy of Marriage / Divorce Certificates

    • Funeral pre-need documents & funeral insurance (if purchased)

    • Life Review / Ethical Will – your personal beliefs and thoughts about life

    • Letters to Loved Ones

    • List of persons to inform of your death (& their contact information)

    • Any other instructions/information you want your loved ones to know 

    As soon as your death file has been compiled, give a copy to your Primary Care Physician, tell your Medical Decision Maker(s) and 2 other close family/friends where to find it. You can also upload to mydirective.com. If you change its location or any of the directives in the form, be sure to update everyone as is appropriate. 


    Download a PDF here.

  • There are many state-specific forms available to download for free. A good place to start is to ask your doctor for the version they recommend to patients.

    I personally recommend the Five Wishes form. This form is available in 32 different languages & meets the legal requirements for advance directives in 42 states + D.C. You can preview a protected PDF copy here (not printable). Both print and digital copies are available for purchase at the Five Wishes organization; a printed copy of the form costs $5 and is mailed to you. You can purchase a copy here.

    I order these forms in bulk and have plenty to distribute for free— please don’t hesitate to reach out to me if you live in the Philadelphia area and are in need of one (or a few). It is my pleasure to provide copies to any and all who need one.

    Let me know if you need one here.

  • I recommend the Advance Directive for Dementia developed by Barak Gaster, MD with help from experts in the fields of geriatrics, neurology, and palliative care.

    See: dementia-directive.org for more information.

    Download a PDF here.